DISCERNMENT Counseling in Utah and north carolina

Is your relationship on the brink?

Discernment Counseling offers a path to clarity and confidence in just one to five sessions.

Are you unsure whether or not your relationship can be saved? Does one of you want to preserve the marriage, while the other already has one foot out the door?

Discernment Counseling

Find the right path for your relationship with the help of a Certified Discernment Counselor.


Discover a Path Forward with Discernment Counseling: A Different Approach from Traditional Marriage Counseling


Are you and your partner at a crossroads in your relationship? Unsure whether staying married is the right path forward? Unlike traditional couple therapy, discernment counseling is designed specifically for mixed agenda couples - where one partner is leaning out of the relationship while the other wants to preserve it.

What is Discernment Counseling?

Developed by Dr. Bill Doherty of the Doherty Relationship Institute, discernment counseling is a short-termed process designed to help couples gain clarity when traditional couples therapy may not be the right fit. This innovative approach combines individual conversations with joint sessions to help you understand your personal contributions to the problems in your relationship. Through this process, you'll gain a deeper understanding of your relationship dynamics so you can make an informed decision about your future together.

How It Differs from Traditional Marriage Counseling

While couples therapy and traditional marriage counseling focus on immediate relationship repair, discernment counseling helps you first determine if both partners are truly ready to work on the relationship. Based on a deeper assessment of each partner's commitment level, discernment counseling helps you with:

  • Clarity and Confidence: Move from uncertainty to a clear, informed decision about your relationship's future.

  • Structured Process: Provides a non-judgmental space for examining both partners' contributions to the problems and expressing individual concerns.

  • Individual Focus: Balances focused individual conversations with joint meetings to address each partner's unique perspective.

  • Efficient and Effective: Typically conducted over 1-5 sessions, making it a time-efficient intervention.

Take the First Step Towards Clarity

Don't let uncertainty and indecision define your relationship's future. Whether you're considering staying married or exploring other options, discernment counseling can help you find your path forward. Contact me today to schedule a free initial consultation.

Contact me today to schedule a free initial consultation. If Discernment Counseling is right for you, we'll begin with an initial session to thoughtfully explore what led to this crossroads and how to move beyond the current status quo – whether that means working to rebuild your marriage or preparing for future relationships.

We’ll schedule up to four more subsequent sessions if needed to get you and your partner on the same path. Together, we can explore your options and pave the way for a more certain future, whichever path you choose to take. I offer Discernment Counseling in North Carolina and Utah.

Discernment Counseling is a transformative approach designed to help couples on the brink of separation or divorce make informed decisions about their future.

How DISCERNMENT COUNSELING works

I’m committed to supporting you through this challenging time.

I specialize in helping couples navigate the complexities of relationship uncertainty, providing guidance and strategies so you can move forward in a way that feels right for both of you.

If you’ve been struggling with communication breakdowns or violations of trust, you may not even know if the problems in your relationship are solvable. With 25 years of experience providing therapy in a wide variety of clinical settings, I understand how devastating it can be when your relationship is faltering. You don’t have to stay stuck in conflict and indecision! Schedule a free consultation today to start finding the right path for your relationship!

FAQs

  • I’m offering Discernment Counseling exclusively via telehealth at this time. All therapy services are available exclusively for clients in either Utah or North Carolina at the time of the appointment.

  • Discernment Counseling is not covered by health insurance.

  • Discernment Counseling Intake • 120 min $450

    Discernment Counseling Sessions • 80 min $295

Find the right path for your relationship.